No matter how much money you have, you can still learn to class-up your look a little. Learn how to dress like you've got more money than you know what to do with, grooming and selecting clothes that will help you appear classy and sophisticated. You can also learn how to pull off the act to make the look complete.
The truth is, in my clinical experience, I rarely see men doing the leaving. Men compartmentalize. They withdraw into work, hobbies, fantasy, or addiction. They cheat or carry on secret lives and secret affairs. They might create situations that make it impossible for a marriage or relationship to continue. Men also suffer silently, shouldering massive burdens. The men I work with often have a high tolerance for disconnection. They might leave a dissatisfying relationship in spirit (sometimes they never fully arrive), but they are unlikely to leave in body. Certainly the description above does not fit all men, but the general patterns I see in my couples counselling practice recur too often to ignore.
Comments
Post a Comment