The first letter of the name can take on a different meaning and importance related to their carnality, how we live, how we deal with his issues, to how we manage our life, how we behave in courtship, the flirting, the alcove and then in the closest intimacy and secret. So let's start with the first letter of the alphabet A up to the latest namely the Z.
The truth is, in my clinical experience, I rarely see men doing the leaving. Men compartmentalize. They withdraw into work, hobbies, fantasy, or addiction. They cheat or carry on secret lives and secret affairs. They might create situations that make it impossible for a marriage or relationship to continue. Men also suffer silently, shouldering massive burdens. The men I work with often have a high tolerance for disconnection. They might leave a dissatisfying relationship in spirit (sometimes they never fully arrive), but they are unlikely to leave in body. Certainly the description above does not fit all men, but the general patterns I see in my couples counselling practice recur too often to ignore.
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